Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Topsy Turvy How Much It Cost

wonderful nature!


Who gets drunk with their own meager knowledge of science and ignores the truth: who spreads absurd theories to the detriment of the children I remember how wonderful Nature.
I could do it in the words of any researcher and scientist, but today I choose a few steps of a well-known scholar journalist who only ever extract from Nature's Essence: Piero Angela.

"The baby's brain is like a chessboard. If the opening moves of the game are appropriate and the system is well developed, the game is well underway, but if the opening moves are wrong it will be extremely difficult to revive the fortunes of the game.
During the early years, the "moves" are those made by parents, mothers in particular, which is the first real teacher.
environment, we must not forget, already begins in the womb breast: the fetus is already beginning to know the environment in which they live through the mother's blood.

It is clearly apparent that the relationship between mother and child is so far beyond what we call affection and education. The mother is called to play a far more extensive in the mental development of the child is like a sun lamp that allows the molecular growth of his intelligence.
From the first day of life then, mother and son playing a game of two. The mother is, so to speak, a tennis player: Each responds to throwing, refers the ball, allowing the potential of smaller expression.

Researchers at Johns Hopkins University believe that a good relationship with his mother constitutes a solid emotional base that allows the child to safely explore the world around them, and then allows him to better develop its capacity to learn . This attitude also allows him to have a better relationship with his neighbors, and is already the basis of its future behavior in society.

In animals as in humans there is a "sign" instinctive, that we carry within us by inheritance and consists of a set of attitudes, expressions, gestures that do not need to be learned because they part of a directory of "automatic".

An example: the infant is already able to communicate his feelings through the screaming and crying and no one taught him to scream and cry. Not only that crying is different depending on the feeling to be reported: pain, hunger, disease and fear.
Another more obvious example: deaf children, blind and dumb develop without ever having seen him smile. There is a short footage of "signals" inherent: the mother is the "receiver" ideal, capable of picking up as effectively as these signals, and transmit to others that the child is able to perceive.

All’Università di Harvard il professor Wolff ha diretto il laboratorio che ha approfondito queste ricerche, scoprendo che il bambino possiede segnali innati molto più complessi di quelli esistenti negli animali, e che il bambino riesca a percepire l’ambiente emozionale che lo circonda attraverso i gesti, i sorrisi, gli sguardi della madre.

In questo scambio continuo tra madre e figlio, gli psicologi ritengono che abbia molta importanza anche il ruolo del bambino: egli infatti non è un elemento passivo, ma attivo, che stimola a sua volta la madre.

Scrive Wolff: “E’ un duetto che deve rispettare alcune sequenze: il bambino ha delle aspettative, cioè expects certain responses from the mother and the mother has certain expectations of the child, each of the two questions and answers at the same time. "

fact, the first and most important meeting the child does with the mother who organized the outset, his physical and intellectual world and allows him to slowly emerge from the dark mind getting used to learn, explore, imagine, even before reading and writing.
It requires that every mother will become more "teacher" that home.
The mother should be aware that his intelligence, his talent, his sensitivity, are virtually the only things that allow a wad umano di emergere dalla notte animale e diventare un essere pensante.
Tocca a lei plasmare, modellare, stimolare la nascita dell’intelligenza, della creatività, della personalità. Il suo compito è molto simile a quello di uno scultore".

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