Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Wording For Parents Thank You
Saturday, February 26, 2011
Small White Spot On Gums
Oggi parliamo anche noi di papà, o meglio: di papà che giocano a fare le mamme e scopriamo come nasce in loro questa "sindrome della donna mancata", e già una vera e propria esigenza di sentirsi donne (e la mamma ne è la massima espressione) mettendo in serio pericolo di estinzione l'insostituibile della figura maschile del papà .
Ma dove sono finiti i veri papà? Quelli che lasciavano le cure alla mamma e s'impegnavano di più nell'educazione e nell'insegnamento dei figli, senza mai intromettersi in aspetti puramente materni. Bè per fortuna ce ne sono ancora molti in giro e non si mettono di certo a competere con le mamme dei loro figli!
Lately we hear
obsessively talking about fathers, "reassessment" of the father figure of funny phenomenon puzzled though I still wonder who did never discredited or called into question and sadly I realize that .... have done everything ourselves, to them, the fathers separated a little frustrated, let us say.
But let's see the argument with clarity and objectivity start with the law on custody of young children to 50% among parents.
Law as we know it is creating many difficulties in its application almost everywhere, amplifying the problems of families in crisis instead of solving them, as was naive to the aim of those who proposed and signed. But why
do not let the people decide things, because we relate so closely?
Anyway, back to Dad, good ones and bad ones.
removing the high proportion of violent young men (and if you consider the physical abuse, sexual and emotional abuse are already approximately 15% of the fathers, of course, in dramatic percentage increase since these individuals have the opportunity to be more time alone with their children) remain a high percentage of men who would never directly to the children of evil but that does not lead to a kind of living adequate for the daily care of their children by themselves, ie without the mother side.
are, for example many men who have a disproportionate use of alcohol unwittingly putting in danger the lives of children left in their custody. Or
men, so-called "eternal Peter Pan" they do that is social life and even forty years, although generally very cheerful and friendly, inadvertently expose children to hazards seemingly invisible, their houses are a bustle of always new people or women, take them around to late hours or leave them on the first friend who happens to come out even with a new flame.
Then there are those men, and there are many near-perfect dad I say almost because I'm beautiful, but as parents da soli occuparsi di uno o più figli è spesso un carico troppo grosso per loro (anche se non lo ammetterebbero mai!). Questi papà spesso hanno una mole di lavoro molto alta, tornano stanchi e, se hanno lavori di responsabilità, tornano anche preoccupati o concentrati su dinamiche lavorative, e così involontariamente trascurano i figli che aspettano di giocare con loro o anche…di mangiare una bella cenetta invece di due fettine di prosciutto rimediate all’ultimo come fanno in tanti.
E così, questi ultimi padri ovviamente si fanno sempre aiutare da terzi : in primo luogo la propria madre alla quale li lasciano spesso, oppure le proprie compagne (che magari cambiano spesso, può succedere), o anche le proprie sorelle o spesso anche delle tate, baby-sitter insomma.
E allora in questi casi mi domando: ha senso avere delle vice-mamme quando una mamma i bambini ce l’hanno già?
Molti diranno che lo stesso discorso vale allora per le mamme single ma invece sappiamo tutti che non è così: le mamme, anche quelle che lavorano, hanno delle risorse in più che gli uomini non hanno per la cura dei figli. Come d'altronde gli uomini hanno delle risorse in più per certi tipi di lavoro, quelli per esempio che richiedono maggior resistenza o forza fisica.
Siamo diversi: gli uomini e le donne non sono sempre intercambiabili, altrimenti saremmo delle lumache and humans: the snail is a hermaphrodite animal is neither male nor female, and everyone is bisexual.
I do not feel like a slug, and you? I think you will feel even snails!
Men are proud to be male, and women are proud of being female and it is so wonderful, why "play" to reverse? And above all: why do it at the expense of their children? For pride? Out of spite?
to test themselves and say "I am a super man are so man ... I can make a woman! Can I also think a little mom '"?
Perhaps unresolved sexual identity crisis? To delusions of omnipotence? Or for not paying child support?
Well, dear people, I am a woman and I love men but please: keep up the men who are much more beautiful, keep up the good fathers to improvise rather clumsy and distracted mothers, men are far more fascinating and more sexy if you ask.
And finally we come to the rare class of men "suitable" shared custody: it is obvious that should not be part of the categories mentioned above (which, after subtracting violent fathers must still be present even if not a lead content of living adequate for the basic needs of children).
The remaining few fathers should first choose a house close to the ex-wife should do a job that involves them too: if you physically tired too poor things can not stand the hard work again on the evening of running after the children, if it stresses them too likely to be mentally distracted and nervous with the kids.
should then have a peaceful relationship with the mother of the children and, if need be able to withstand some of his excessive care or recommendation (it is natural that we want to do!).
should always have in his head to be fathers and mothers so that when their children are not a substitute for their mother, but things that give them different, those who already know a good father.
And then they should ask every day if these poor children so sballottolati for the unique needs (or resentments) of the parents are really happy , but you'd like to ask that life for your children? E 'is also right that you see them every day your children, maybe give yourself an hour a day with them, organize them in some way because they need you this is obvious, but let them live in one house, let them live in peace will thank you and you will see.
E 'for the check that you do it? Then tell the truth in the courts: if you can not afford a continuation discuss to decrease in the most appropriate means any conscientious mother-son junction in front of the money, chooses the path to the money while also giving up his son to give his son a peaceful life as possible. If checks are too expensive for you then Strive for that, but not deceived the problem with compulsive methods at the expense of children, as a forced joint custody even if this creates confusion and frustration for children. And of course this argument also applies to the small group of mothers venal but dreary.
In conclusion: the exclusion of all the above categories, namely the violent first course, then the alcohol and the unwary, but all those I have referred to simply "Inadequate" the daily responsibilities of raising a child in the most appropriate to his age and then the fathers-Peter Pan, the relentless work, the stress, Don Giovanni, etc.. that is all potentially good but if those fathers side has the support of a woman (the mother of their children) who is in charge of their care, but when the relationship ends alone are not then able to sustain such a big responsibility (this gift exclusively breast) and is therefore not appropriate for children to live half the time with them, even if it is essential that they continue, however, a strong relationship with them, but let them live with their mother.
Question: how many fathers are idonei per un affidamento condiviso a regola d’arte?
Pochi, davvero pochi.
E allora si può fare una legge da applicare universalmente quando poi oltre all’impossibilità materiale di concretizzarla c’è anche un’indisposizione naturale ad applicarla, indisposizione che penalizza alla fine tutti e tre: madri, figli e anche i padri (che ci guadagnano solo economicamente, perché per il resto….è solo una gran fatica per loro!).
Sono pochi, davvero pochi i casi in cui questa utopistica regola può aver buon esito.
I bambini non sono felici di fare la vita da nomadi : recenti studi hanno dimostrato che i bambini che cambiano soventemente home (for other reasons) then future relationship difficulties, as well as learning disabilities and more.
The children have two parents yes, but they need a cave to shelter every night, waking up every morning and where: we respect our children and their needs then.
I'm sure many fathers and wise (and the majority thankfully) fully agree with my words.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Bose Spacial Receiver Value
"It was impossible not to note that recently the television we're forced to propose a model of the extremely negative image of mother with their children, suggesting a kind of commercials against le mamme: si parla solo di depressioni, sindromi strane uscite dal nulla, crisi isteriche, infanticidi materni o madri scellerate. Ai tg danno sempre più spesso dati sbagliati creando paure ed insicurezze nella gente (far crollare la figura materna significa far crollare il fulcro vitale della Famiglia), informazioni chiaramente mirate a rincorrere un qualche obbiettivo da parte di chi le divulga. Si vuole infatti inculcare nella gente il terrore di una "malattia" dal buffo nome (PAS) e dal buffo significato, ideata e propagandata da uomini evidentemente in mala fede contro povere mamme che tentano disperatamente di aiutare i figli proprio dalla loro violenza.
Questa terribile "sindrome" che colpirebbe i bambini figli di un genitore che vuole proteggerli viene proposta devastante come l'aviaria o la mucca pazza! Cioè una sindrome pericolosissima (certi siti la definiscono "il più grave degli abusi all'infanzia!") che viene da qualche ignoto bacillo ma che all'improvviso colpirebbe tutti i bambini con situazioni di disagio familiare.
E noi ci crediamo? Ma è uno scherzo? No, non ridete: c'è chi ci crede davvero, proteggere un figlio lo fa ammalare!! E' come dire che mettere il cappello al proprio figlio quando c'è bufera gli fa venire la bronchite.
Sembra una battuta ma siccome esce dalla televisione il popolo "abbocca", e così impauriti ora tutti a cercare il vaccino anti-mamma.
Che gregge di pazzi senza Italians head today! Sixty-eight years and I can not even recognize my people ....! Once we strive to enhance the human values \u200b\u200bthat today we are fighting to destroy them. The crime proves this every day. As well as our policy-sad joke.
Once the people were artists, poets and scientists: We have the best doctors and the best minds in the world .... and we were also the people of "mammon": perhaps the love of the mother develops the brain and creativity?
"syndrome" of parental alienation. No, I do not believe that we have reached this level. It 's sad, really sad that we lose so much energy and especially money to study an abstract phenomenon.
I find this immoral much smoke around a fire in a virtual, imaginary. We are facing a serious setback and low cultural : to try to manipulate people taking advantage of 'ignorance of the common people and the comfort of belonging to a flock without the need to reason.
The real manipulation, and especially the most damaging effect is not that of parents towards their children (whose attempt when there is ephemeral and irrelevant term hazard): the seriousness of the problem is rather to inculcate groped the head of a people concept adult unfounded theories with unstable cancel each other out.
many conferences on the subject! Quanti libri di chiacchiere da mercato!
E soprattutto quanti processi e cause civili pasticciate e confuse dal nulla ,da un qualcosa che semplicemente non esiste nei termini in cui viene imposto: non esiste come sindrome, non esiste come malattia. Quante parole sprecate a spiegare che cosa?
Mi domando quando si tornerà ad avere la testa sulle spalle e si continuerà a discutere di cose serie, reali, ad investire il denaro per la Scienza e la Medicina e non per fare propaganda agli esclusivi interessi di questi fantocci "imprenditori della psicologia".
Lo Stato si è forse dimenticato dei problemi reali che ci sono? C'era bisogno di inventare un nuovo problema e mascherarlo da patologia to have a topic for discussion? Perhaps the fable of the Pas to label children who seek help is a better business?
The state has so much money to throw at conferences like this even when we know so little about cancer or multiple sclerosis, etc.?
One wonders what the advantage of someone in this, because when you create a phenomenon by no means a gain for someone there: for the sheep of the flock is economic profit (on the shoulders of children, never ever forget) but to the shepherds? Maybe politics? Or maybe there's more?
Inventing disease at a table, define or label them as syndromes, diseases, come nello sconcertante "fenomeno Pas" che va di moda ora, è una delle più ignobili offese mai fatte allo studio della Psicologia: una vera e volgare strumentalizzazione dei suoi nobili principi. "
Don Franco
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Con queste parole Gianfranco Melzi, conosciuto da tutti come Don Franco, ex giornalista laureato in sociologia, esprime il suo parere sul fenomeno mediatico della malattia inventata di cui sopra.
Fenomeno inventato e sponsorizzato da coloro che hanno l’interesse nel vendere “il prodotto” e non da chi ha interesse nel fare Giustizia e tutelare i più deboli : i bambini usati e giudicati come si fa con the goods of a dealer market. He points out that TV networks now in turning the channels, including an advertisement for a car and a toilet paper you hear more and more often (and with suspected insistence) of "Pas", have recently found a way to sink even the news : To understand, we say that to push this market Pas are applying their usual promotional strategy using the valleys or the tissue to be launched: you find them a bit 'all over the world.
would be less hypocritical if they speak at least when writing on the screen at the top left "marketing message" as the rule states when you advertise something, so just because of this is: business.
And eating on the lives of many children are shamefully.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Can Flu Causes Increased Lymphocyte
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Bottomless Women In Art
CAGLIARI AND PRIMARY:
CONSIDERATIONS TO POISON SCEPTICAL of progress.
Here is a reflection on my primary held in Cagliari on 30 January, is intended to democracy today.
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Can You Use Ipod Headphones As A Mic For Ps3?
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The PAS is just an argument that the lawyer of one of the two parties throws the pot to tip the scales of justice on the side of his client .
To give more value to this argument is the mask of "disease".
The PAS is not a disease, diseases exist only in the sphere of somatic pathology in medicine is only that which has its roots in changes in biological, physical, organic.
The same "treatment" given to "cure", that the "threat therapy", ie remove the parent to the child he loved and refused to deliver it to , is the proof that the PAS is not in the nature of the disease.
No illness is treated with a judge's ruling : the care of all mental disorders is either pharmacological or psychotherapeutic.
The PAS is a myth, that is, quoting Galimberti, a simple idea, comfortable, there is the problem to investigate the reason for rejection given by the child toward a parent.
But the question that you do not want to face is this: why a child rejects a parent?
What happened between the child and the parent refused?
Who supports virtually PAS says no ci interessa quello che è successo.
Se un genitore è violento in famiglia può non interessarci?
Se un genitore è arrivato ad abusare sessualmente dei suoi figli può non interessarci?
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Dott. Andrea Mazzeo , psichiatra
Pysics Problem Car Pulling Trailer
Il magazine di novembre dicembre è online...
Come già preannunciato, fra i vari argomenti troviamo lo “speciale” sulle ultime mostre di bonsai e suiseki : Crespi Cup 2010, Kokoro-No Bonsai Ten 2010, Bonsai & Friends 2010.
Ci sono 168 pagine ricchissime da leggere, frutto ancora una volta dell'impegno di tutte quelle persone, che si tratti di Istruttori o, si fa per dire, di “semplici” appassionati , grazie alle quali è possibile la realizzazione di questo great means of dissemination. thank very heart of all. The secret of success of the magazine is just that. What unites all is the passion for bonsai and Suiseki. Energy and Harmony.
Here is the summary:
>> The Official Instructors
08. IBS Gallery
11. Register degli istruttori
12. Il cuore del Mediterraneo
24. IBS News
>> Secret World
26. Gallery
>> Dal mondo del Bonsai & Suiseki
30. L'acqua nel giardino giapponese
34. Club-Laboratorio "Bonsai Sensei"
>> Bonsai-Do: Practice and know
36. Bonsai life and in memory of Marco
Boccardo
>> Exhibitions and Events
38. Crespi Cup 2010
46. Bonsai No Kokoro-Ten 2010
64. Innovative teaching in bonsai.
68. Premio "Bonsai & Suiseki magazine"
70. Premio "Io difendo l'ulivo".
Il perché di una scelta
74. Bonsai & Friends 2010
82. Bonsai & Friends... le origini
>> In libreria
91. L'arte del Bonsai. Storia, estetica,
techniques and secrets of cultivation
92. Suiseki: qseki 2009.
93. Chrysanthemum Stones
The Story of Stone Flowers
95. Bonsai. Special techniques
>> Lessons in Suiseki
96. Koo Tanseki
>> Us ... Bonsai Creative School
119. "The boss Spacca bits"
>> The review of ...
140. Roberto Raspanti
>> Notes cultivation
150. Kiryu and lapilli - Part II
>> Japan seen up close
152. "The Zen e l'arte di disporre i fiori"
di Gusty Herrigel
>> Malattie e parassiti
154. I raggi UV ed i loro effetti negativi.
II parte
>> BCI News
156. Bonsai News
Buona lettura!
Sunday, January 16, 2011
How To Get Rid Of Skin Tags On Labia
NON FATEVI SCORAGGIARE ED ABBATTERE DA CIO' CHE E' SOLO PIU' APPARISCENTE DI VOI:
I PIU' GRANDI SUCCESSI NASCONO DALL'OMBRA.
Per nove mesi, al buio, nella vostra pancia qualcosa di molto piccolo è cresciuto di miliardi di volte e SOLO QUANDO E' STATO PRONTO è USCITO ALLA LUCE.
E quando a creature is ready to leave, to live, to breathe on its own, it knows only the body of his mother that opens like a flower, and introduces the small LIFE.
Remember those times when no one knew it was that child? No one could see it but only imagine. No one knew how it was, who he was, who was inside that belly. No one but you MOTHER. You close your eyes and you could hear it, you close your eyes and you understood what he needed, that you could communicate with him, you know that when I sleep and when he was agitated when he was hungry and when he wanted to play in you!
Just you mother wants to know what your child is born in you, not inside someone else: JUST IN YOU, remember that you never lose, never lose the unique value of this divine gift, you do not cloud the soul and feelings from a society that denies life to money, fame and power!
You give the mother's life, they give the death you are more beautiful you or them?
mother stay strong in 2000! Do not cry, do not shed more tears to try and match, so awkward and unnatural, a company at a time which is seriously ill: the company is in crisis, is disoriented, is looking for a guide who is not.
The company is now a little girl who lost her mother and is trying desperately e allora impaurita si fida del primo sconosciuto che capita senza accorgersi dei pericoli a cui va incontro!
La società in questo momento è molto malata, e va guarita.
Sei madre, CREATRICE DI VITA, e come tale vai rispettata.
Ma tu non mollare, la tua forza è l'energia di chi combatte per te!
Tu non lo sai perchè ora vedi solo il buio ma, non dimenticarlo mai, anche nella tua pancia era buio e nessuno vedeva nulla eppure si stava formando una meraviglia: tuo figlio.
Questo per dirti che nel buio spesso le cose minuscole diventano enormi, crescono senza che nessuno se ne accorga, e solo quando sono pronte NASCONO, tu lo sai bene: tu sai generare e partorire!!
They do not, and this makes them mad with rage and hatred towards you.
'll see that those who now deny what you value, who discredits you, who would crush your existence, your sole and indisputable importance, he is now living its brief moment of glory that will soon end. What
fleeting moment of social schizophrenia, first to an eternity of obvious reality? He, or rather, they are just more apparent to you now, are the new counter and as such curious and do a lot of smoke, like all things of little value. But then, bored, bored. Especially if supported by poor arguments vacillating, defying nature and science.
Never challenge nature, nature is a mother like you : sooner or later will rebel, and there will be trouble. Now you're just stunned
: stood up by not wasting any more time! If you have the other side who's hurting and humiliating that way volendoti remove that for you (and only for you) is more expensive in the world, your creature, then it means that he did not understand anything in life, nothing love, nothing of being a parent, and then head up I can tell you "come on, your child needs you!" and in this case ONLY YOU!
Your child needs your love as well, on the strength of his single mother, she could understand that ever since his little heart a few millimeters has just started to fly, to live!
Your son needs you to continue to protect him with your strength unique: there is no mother in the animal world that leaves her child in danger, any mother fight to the death rather protteggere the puppy! I saw a doe fraglile and become a lioness attacking a hunter to protect her fawn: without him it would run away instead of jumping as usual among the woods, with his usual grace harmless.
Arise therefore, and takes out your power unbeatable. There is no time for tears, enough!
If you love your child do it, children can not accept a passive mother before their evil: your child wants a warrior, only this will help him grow as Mother Nature teaches.
Be patient, struggling with your wisdom and truth, without rancor that wear out and that hurt the baby. You'll look like silent and invisible to the world but more so, let them win and get the strong belief that:
the more 'great success comes SHADOWS.
BG
Dog Hot Spot Versus Ringworm
" True Bonsai is union, not division. Each individual goes his own way, but all, without ulterior motives, if crossed, leads to the same direction "
I borrowed this phrase from our dear director, I'm sure he will forgive me for the quote :-)
I think the best way to summarize the path that the two forums have decided to undertake. It is a form of collaboration that demonstrates the can share experiences and emotions, without being overshadowed by negative feelings such as the harsh competition or extreme patriotism, to preserve the essence of passion as well as those for Bonsai and Suiseki.
must be confident and move forward on this road, that does not want to have some claim to be an example for anyone, but only express what they feel the true fans.
I must point out the links to refer to the forum and take this opportunity to greet and welcome all the friends of Bonsai Hobby
http://www.napolibonsaiclub.it/forum/showthread.php?2282-Collaboriamo
Hello everyone from Valeria