Ai Sacerdoti piace essere chiamati “ Padre ” e, preferibilmente, la gente li chiama e li definisce con questo appellativo. Anzi a molti cattolici piace anche definirsi “figlio spirituale” del proprio Padre Spirituale, ed anche i Padri Spirituali chiamano “ figli spirituali ” quelli che li frequentano.
L’attribuzione del ruolo di “ paternità spirituale ”: inconsciamente è anche compensativa della carenza e della frustrazione della paternità fisica, mettendo in atto una pulsione comportamentistica imitativa del comportamento dei veri padri fisici.
Comunque tutto quello che avviene a livello di inconsapevolezza, o di non piena consapevolezza, corrisponde sempre ad una perdita di autocontrollo, e soprattutto dell’autocontrollo delle proprie pulsioni genitali, che il soggetto, in stato di piena coscienza aveva promesso e giurato di autocontrollare come impegno più importante della sua scelta di vita.
Putroppo la perdita di autocontrollo delle proprie pulsioni genitali avviene anche tra gli stessi fisici, che con la violenza sessuale, pretendono di esercitare la padronanza sulle proprie creature, anche rivendicando legalmente il diritto di proprietà sui minori, particolarmente nelle circostanze di separazione dei genitori; e i giudici la devono riconoscere, nonostante maltrattamenti e di eventuali abusi sessuali perpetrati to their children. These awards legal move back to civilization, bringing the company back to ancient Rome, when he recognized the "paterfamilias " right to life and death over his wife and children. Or repeat the "massacre of the innocents" of the Herodian memory.
The phenomenon of pedophilia occurs more frequently in environments that collect many children "handicapped" by the symptoms of poverty, neglect, blindness and deaf-mutism, mutilation or disability fsico of early loss of parents, it's orphanages, charitable institutions, colleges and any minority community, run by people who have chosen celibacy to devote himself to the management of adolescent and preadolescent children affected by these disasters. In fact the symptoms are more concentrated: more needs to cause tenderness, pity and compassion. However
communities are increasingly made up of sums of goods and evils that weigh heavily on the good and the bad conscience of those who did this. The
Pope Wojtyla had written a recommendation not to focus boy in the sacristy to serve as altar girls, but this appeal was not given any hearing, as the facts show.
The same age is a factor less provocative actions of these pedophiles. Recently this behavior
was supported, accredited, or permission from the authority of psychiatry, that the "famous" psychiatrist Richard Gardner personified by issuing, on a behavioral, educational and rehabilitative methods for normal subjects and weak. Evidently Gardner's theory has been motivated by the "professional deformation", which always takes place by those who dedicate themselves exclusively to the exercise excessively or in their profession. The impression that leaves his theories acquire greater importance because they are ideas of a physician and a psychiatrist, and not contain new or previously accepted contradictions in ideologies. To all
adds that amorous behaviors frequently occur during disasters, the inconvenience, misunderstanding, infidelity, or any regret, and this is hysteria compensatory everything that has happened to evil pedophiles normally vent your hysteria, always inventing goods or evils that exist or not exist in the reality of people abused.
All pedophiles believe they have a benevolent paternalism, through sexual manipulation, especially the "spiritual father", claiming to play an affectionate care, education or training tend to identify with the love of the exercise its task e arrivando anche a definirlo missione.
Inoltre può dirsi pedofilia anche l’intrattenimento, comunemente più frequente e più lungo sui comportamenti sessuali, del proprio figlio spirituale, o del proprio allievo, o del proprio educando: attribuendosi il diritto e dovere di fare un discorso di educazione sessuale, specialmente nel periodo della preadolescenza, quando gli adolescenti incominciano a sentire maggiormente le prime pulsioni sessuali.
Il discorso della educazione sessuale assolutamente non appartiene al sacerdote, né all’educatore, né al docente come tale. Chi crea la vita ha il dovere e il diritto di istruire la propria creatura, sulle leggi della vita che gli ha data, creando anche psychic life, which is wholeness of life. In fact, this duty of course the parent carries it out to three years, so he inculcates the necessity and justification of clothing.
is a duty that has unfortunately always do, even reluctantly, because it teaches the harm to the creature, making malicious and malignant.
The priest, who has chosen to carry out the task of education and administration of spiritual mysticism through the sublimation of the physical, grown in the same priest, like any other normal human being: it is involved with the perpetual vow of celibacy, for refrain from any physical intervention on the erotic and genital own and others' body.
Pedophilia exercised by persons who chose celibacy demonstrates the inappropriateness of the status of "perpetual vow."
It happens in life that is humanly possible to change opinion, or belief. or choice.
more useful and appropriate at all times would then be the "temporary voting, after which the priest and any person who is" consecrated "may feel to continue to take responsibility for that commitment, or of not being able to assume that responsibility.
How could that happen the same supreme leaders of the church institutions have reasons for not considering the most appropriate l’affidamento di queste responsabilità.
Il rinnovo è sempre un processo di generazione, o di rigenerazione della vita, e la vita l’ha capita solo chi ha capito che bisogna sempre ricominciare; mentre chi ha solo capito che bisogna “continuare”: non ha capito niente del valore della vita.
Dr.Giovanni Basso – Psicologo
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